There is this strange phenomenon I've noticed in human (and animal) relationships. It's the tendency for friends, spouses, colleagues to start acting and even looking like one another when they spend a decent amount of time together. I guess it is the unconscious version of imitation as the sincerest form of flattery.
What's funny is that this same phenomenon manifests itself in human-pet relationships. Have you ever noticed how humans and their pets resemble one another? I think the link is stronger in dogs but recently I've seen it in Skip and me.
I've observed my liking of wearing my hair in two ponytails and how oddly familiar the look feels to me as I gaze at Skip's ears. hmmm. And, I even found myself last winter purchasing and wearing a disproportionate amount of gray sweaters and tops. hmmm. I
do love hopping. So, anyway, this has led me to a number of realizations regarding my similarities to Skip.
Here it goes:
1. Skip likes to stay clean. Me too!
2. Skip likes his possessions to be placed in a certain way. ditto. *
3. Skip doesn' t like strange noises or alarms.
4. Skip gets easily overwhelmed with too much activity. I just wish I could hide in those situations and get away with it like Skip can.
5. Skip can often be distrustful of approaching humans.
6. Skip doesn't really like being picked up or cornered.
7. Skip DOES love being with people but he needs his space.
8. Skip has to check out situations before he engages.
9. Skip gets grumpy when his territory is compromised.
10. Skip loves food.
11. Skip loves being scratched behind the ears. I understand.
12. Skip can stare at a wall for an hour without feeling bored. I'm the human champ at staring.
13. Skip's baseline mode of operation is fear. Yep.
14. Skip is feisty.
15. Skip likes to feel cozy and burrowed when resting.
So, did I choose Skip as a pet because he subconsciously channeled Ruth-dom? Hard to say. But, I think we make a good human-pet match. The rabbit incarnation project has been easy because we might be cut from the same cloth anyway.
Just watch out and hold me accountable for a twitching nose.
*Before Skip was litter box trained, I discovered a poop on the floor organized in three separate piles with approximately the same amount of pellets in each pile. whoa.